Friday, December 19, 2025

Friday Favourites: Preparations

 


It's been a week of variable weather. Mostly rain that alternated between a downpour and a drizzle. Many streams overflowed their banks, and in the Fraser Valley, where many of my extended family members live, flooding has affected many people. Last week I mentioned that my parents and siblings were coming for the weekend. In the end, my brother and his wife couldn't make it as the highways and roads were impassable and travel was curtailed to "essential only." A disappointment for us, but we still had a good time.

Butchart Gardens does a beautiful display for Christmas. We went early so it wouldn't be too dark for my parents, and saw the lights glowing in the half-light of mid-late afternoon. An enormous ornament lights up the center of the rose garden, now bereft of blooms. 


The theme is the Twelve Days of Christmas and I always enjoy seeing the Three French Hens enjoying tea and pastry with the Eiffel Tower in the background. 



Lights twinkle and glow throughout the gardens. It's always a delight to visit. How we all long for light in the darkness of winter. 




Most of our time was spent at home, visiting accompanied by warming food and lots of laughter. We worked on the puzzle above, then Tim and I finished it a couple of days ago. Such a lovely wintry garden. Mine looks nothing like it.


They left on Sunday and the house settled down to its quiet routines for a day or two. There was always something to do - a bit of shopping, baking, a few projects to finish, and plenty of time in the evenings to read and enjoy candlelight and firelight. 


One of my favourite parts of having people over for dinner is setting the table. I like to do it early in the day so I'm not rushed. Sometimes I have a plan in mind, other times I just do what feels right at the time. Yesterday, friends came over and my table setting was very much a "whatever." Plates on bare wood with a red runner down the center. I went outside to cut cedar and holly, and rinsed the cedar in vinegar water before placing it on the table. It gets rid of any bugs that might be lurking. I added candles in various holders and then a few shiny baubles. Add red napkins and I was done. 


We had a good time together, laughing and chatting. The "meal" was easy - it was an "apero dinatoire" but we sat together at the table rather than balancing plates on laps. Appetizers for dinner. 


I made a wreath arrangement of cheeses, vegetables, and salami on the large board Tim made me a couple of years ago. 


Tonight more friends are coming for dinner. This will be a full meal. The napkins are ironed and I placed them in fun napkin rings brought from Ecuador many years ago. They are made of clay and well resined to withstand moisture. 


As this little angel seems to say, "Joy to the World," I'll wish you a Merry Christmas. I may post once early next week, but we will see. 

I've always believed that anticipation plays a great role in special events, adding to the satisfaction and contentment felt afterwards. May you find loveliness in the preparations ahead. Take time for a cup of tea and a cookie. Read a book. Enjoy the moments. 

29 comments:

  1. I especially love the three French hens having tea. That's really cute. Sounds like you've been busy, with more to come. Have a great weekend and Merry Christmas!

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  2. Time by the fire with the tree lights glowing is always a favourite at our house. Merry Christmas!

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  3. Everything looks good and inviting ❤️ and wonderful to see.
    VERY NICE 🎀 Three French Hens 😀😀😀
    I'm on my way to teach an Italian class so arrivederci for now 🥰

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  4. What delightful pre-Christmas photos, just giving a flavour of all that's going on in and around your home. What a stunning ornament that is in Butchart Gardens. I think I'd like a slightly smaller version in my garden!
    All best wishes for a peaceful and happy Christmas, Lorrie.

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  5. What a lovely post, and just what I need to see right now. The Three French Hens are adorable! I would so love to see the Butchart gardens. That is a very beautiful, and very tricky, jig saw puzzle. Well done you! I very much like the festive wreath made of snacks, brilliant idea and so pretty. It is a joy to get out our favourite Christmas items each year, and a joy to look at yours too. Merry Christmas Lorrie.

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  6. Your appetizer wreath is so festive. I like that idea for a light supper and sitting at the table instead of juggling a plate and drink. Those Ecuadorian napkin rings are so sweet. A very Merry Christmas to you and yours!

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  7. How beautiful your table decoration is, food looks tasty too. Have a wonderful Christmas:)

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  8. You set a lovely table! The appetizer wreath is so attractive 🎄.
    Nice puzzle. After Boxing day the table in our sunroom will be available again for us to put a puzzle out. Have a wonderful Christmas with your loved ones. 🎄

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  9. You have a real knack for these arrangements, I love the tray of candles on the table. So elegant! Have a happy Christmas together.

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  10. With all that festive beauty decorating your home, I would be quite content to stay inside!

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  11. Lovely to have a peek at your beautiful table decorations. Amazing displays at the gardens too. We have a puzzle ready for Christmas ‘ Wines of Italy’ very appropriate for all my men lol! B x

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  12. Thank you for the wonderful post, Lorrie!
    Happy Christmas to you and your family.

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  13. The displays at the gardens were lovely to see ...
    Your table and food looks wonderful.

    Merry Christmas Wishes.

    All the best Jan

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  14. Dear Lorrie, I absolutely love all your photos, and all the decorations are stunning! Very heartwarming and cheerful! Merry Christmas to you and your family. I wish you good health, peace, joy and happiness...now, and always.

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  15. What a treat to read your Christmas-y post, Lorrie. I always love catching glimpses of Butchart Gardens at this time of year. We honeymooned in Victoria a long time ago, and our visit to Butchart Gardens that year is filled with lots of sweet memories. // Your home looks so cozy and festive, and your food wreath looks so delicious.

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  16. I love how you make even the small details feel special.
    It really shows how much joy there is in thoughtful preparations.
    Wishing you lots of laughter, warmth, and a very Merry Christmas! 🎅🌲❄️🎁

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  17. Lorrie - so sorry that your brother and his wife couldn't make it. This week, we had a scary windstorm that knocked out power for us and 1000s of others - it took 30 hours for it to be restored in our area. I will take a snowstorm any day!

    Butchart Gardens is on my bucket list - looks like I might have to make more than one trip to enjoy it in all seasons!

    Your table settings are a delight to the eye, and I especially appreciate how you have incorporated natural elements!

    I will plan to take your advice and enjoy a cup of tea and a cookie (or two). Merry Christmas to you and yours!

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  18. Merry, Merry Christmas, Lorrie. Everything looks beautiful and I think that is one of the prettiest puzzles I have ever seen. Do you happen to have the name of that puzzle? Maker, etc? This is one I think my daughter would love.
    You have rain and we have more snow coming today. We have had freezing cold weather. Coldest start to December in over 50 years. While I do love snow for Christmas I could do without the bitter cold. After that, I am in a hurry for Spring. xo Diana

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  19. The puzzle is very nice. Sorry that some of your guests could not come.
    The cheese and vegetables crown is very inviting!
    Happy Christmas Joyeux Noël Lorrie!

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  20. Just popping in to wish you a Merry Christmas, Lorrie!

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  21. Just had my cuppa tea and two molasses cookies. Love that wreath of appetizers. I too like to dress up the table for company. I'll be doing that Christmas morning after Dan and I have breakfast.

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  22. It all looks lovely and I am going to steal your food wreath presentation for Boxing Day lunch! I love the sociability of the Christmas holiday with time to spend with family and friends. Have a wonderful time, Lorrie.

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  23. ... that little angel is so sweet.
    Happy Christmas Wishes to you and your family.

    All the best Jan

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  26. The Butchart Gardens look lovely around this time judging from your photos. That giant ornament is wonderful. Your table setting is beautiful and very festive, and how do I like those napkin rings. I like to set the table early as well when we expect company. Appetizers for dinner is perfect - we sometimes do that, too, and also sit at the dining table instead of balancing plates on our laps. The important thing isn't the food, but the company.
    I wish you a peaceful Christmas, Lorrie.

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  27. I love visiting Butchart Gardens any time of year. That first wreath is so pretty on the gate. Love your wreath appetizers plate and the napkin rings too. Sending best wishes for a merry Christmas to you.

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  28. The French hens drinking coffee near the Eiffel Tower are a very beautiful sight!!
    The cheese wreath you made is fantastic!!
    Have a wonderful holiday Lori,
    with health, love and joy🧡🎁⛄🌲🎉!!

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  29. I loved so many things in your post - the Three French Hens, of course, but also your edible wreath, the red tray with the candles, your table setting. I feel inspired! Happy holidays,
    Amalia
    xo

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